Buried At Sea: Abuse, Power & Accountability
- Yachting International Radio
- Jul 1
- 11 min read
There are truths the maritime industry has spent generations learning how to contain. Not always through open denial, and not always through obvious corruption, but through process, reputation, hierarchy, distance, and the quiet preservation of systems that know how to outlast the people brave enough to challenge them.
At sea, silence is rarely accidental. It is cultivated by isolation, reinforced by rank, and protected by the knowledge that speaking up can cost a person more than staying quiet. It is found in the hesitation before a report is made, in the fear of not being believed, in the calculation of whether a career, reference, contract, or visa might disappear, and in the long shadow cast by those who have spoken before and paid heavily for it.
This is the reality at the centre of Buried At Sea: Abuse, Power & Accountability, a conversation that reaches far beyond one vessel, one company, or one account of abuse. It is about the culture that allows harm to take root, the institutions that can become more concerned with exposure than justice, and the uncomfortable truth that many of the most damaging things that happen at sea are not hidden because no one sees them. They are hidden because too many people understand exactly what it would mean to acknowledge them.
Ryan Melogy’s perspective carries weight because he has lived on both sides of this world. Before becoming a maritime lawyer, advocate, and founder of Justice4Mariners, he spent nearly two decades at sea. He sailed on 22 vessels, held an unlimited tonnage chief mate licence, and served eight years as an officer in the US Navy Reserve. He understood the structure, the discipline, the pressure, and the culture long before he began challenging it.
That matters, because this is not an outsider’s critique of an industry he does not understand. It is the account of someone who knew the rules, followed the reporting channels, documented what happened, and still came face to face with the deeper machinery of institutional self-protection.
Buried At Sea: When Silence Becomes A System
Abuse at sea does not always announce itself in a way that is immediately understood. In a normal workplace, a line crossed may be easier to name, easier to report, and easier to physically step away from. A vessel is different. The workplace is also the living space. The hierarchy is constant. The people around you are not simply colleagues, but the entire social world available to you in that moment. When something feels wrong, there is often no immediate escape from the person who caused it, and no guarantee that anyone with authority will respond in a way that protects the person harmed.
That is one of the reasons abuse in maritime environments can be so difficult to confront. It often begins in ambiguity, not because the behaviour itself is harmless, but because the environment distorts the victim’s ability to react. A comment that should be clearly recognised as harassment becomes something to process quietly. Physical contact that should never happen in a workplace becomes something a person may question in real time because shock, hierarchy, and survival are all competing at once. The brain searches for context while the body tries to remain functional.
This is especially dangerous in industries that prize endurance. Seafarers and yacht crew are trained to keep going, to adapt, to manage discomfort, to remain professional under pressure. Those qualities are necessary at sea, but they can also be exploited. When resilience becomes an expectation that overrides safety, people learn to absorb harm rather than challenge it. They learn to keep the vessel moving, keep the programme intact, keep the peace, and keep their own distress contained until it becomes impossible to carry.
For those working in yachting, the parallels are difficult to ignore. The industry may look different from commercial shipping, but the pressure points are familiar. Hierarchy, isolation, reputation, money, guest experience, owner expectations, seniority, and fear of being labelled difficult can all work together to create an environment where the person harmed is forced to weigh their own safety against the consequences of naming what happened.
The glossy surface of yachting does not remove these risks. In some cases, it makes them easier to disguise.
The Freeze Response The Industry Still Fails To Understand
One of the most important parts of Ryan Melogy’s account is not only what happened, but how honestly he speaks about the difficulty of responding in the moment. The maritime industry often imagines courage as something immediate and visible. People like to believe they would intervene, speak up, stop the behaviour, or report without hesitation. But trauma rarely behaves according to the script written by those observing from a safe distance.
Freezing is one of the most misunderstood responses to abuse. It is not consent, weakness, indifference, or complicity. It is a human response to a situation the brain has not yet been able to categorise safely. In an isolated vessel environment, that response can be intensified by the knowledge that there may be nowhere to go, no one neutral to turn to, and no easy way to remove yourself from the person causing harm.
This is where maritime culture must become more honest. It is not enough to ask why someone did not report sooner, why they did not intervene faster, or why they did not recognise the abuse immediately. Those questions may sound reasonable in hindsight, but they often reveal a lack of understanding about how power operates in confined workplaces. A victim at sea may still have to stand watch with the person who harmed them. A witness may still have to take orders from the perpetrator. A junior crew member may still need a reference, a contract, a flight home, or the approval of the very hierarchy that has failed them.
The industry cannot keep placing the burden of perfect response on the person experiencing harm while allowing the systems around them to remain slow, opaque, and self-protective. If freezing is common, the failure is not only individual. It is cultural. It means the environment has not made speaking safe enough.
Abuse At Sea Is About Power, Not Only Gender
For years, conversations about sexual harassment and abuse at sea have often been framed as women’s issues. Women have undoubtedly carried a disproportionate burden in this space, particularly in yachting, where appearance, access, service culture, and power imbalance can combine in deeply damaging ways. But Ryan Melogy’s story forces a wider and more uncomfortable truth into view.
Abuse at sea is not only about gender. It is about power.
It is about who has authority and who depends on it. It is about who can damage a career, control a watch schedule, shape a reputation, influence a report, or make a person’s life on board unbearable. It is about who feels untouchable because experience has shown them that the system will hesitate before holding them accountable. Men can be targeted. Cadets can be targeted. Junior crew can be targeted. Anyone whose role, age, nationality, financial position, ambition, or isolation makes them vulnerable can become exposed in a culture that does not enforce consequences.
That broader understanding does not weaken the conversation around women’s safety. It strengthens it. It shows that abuse is not a side issue to be handled quietly, or a diversity concern to be softened for public consumption. It is a structural issue. It lives wherever power is allowed to operate without accountability.
When the industry reduces abuse to isolated personalities or occasional bad behaviour, it avoids the more difficult question: why do harmful people so often believe they will get away with it?
Reporting Should Not Become Another Form Of Risk
Every responsible industry tells people to report misconduct. The message is repeated in policies, training sessions, induction packs, crew handbooks, and corporate statements. But reporting only works if the system receiving the report is prepared to act with integrity. Without that, the instruction to “speak up” can become another way of shifting risk onto the person harmed.
Ryan Melogy says he reported what happened. He documented it. He escalated it. He put the behaviour into the official channels that are supposed to exist for exactly this reason. That should have been the beginning of accountability. Instead, he says the person he reported was later promoted.
That is the kind of outcome that does not remain contained within one case. It sends a message through an entire culture. It tells victims that the system may ask for their truth but may not protect them once they give it. It tells witnesses that stepping forward may create more danger than silence. It tells perpetrators that procedure can be survived, managed, or outwaited. It tells institutions that reputational control may still matter more than human consequence.
This is where the maritime industry must stop pretending that silence is simply a matter of personal fear. Silence is often a rational response to systems that have shown people what happens when they speak. If reporting leads to retaliation, isolation, professional damage, disbelief, or institutional manoeuvring, then the industry has not created a reporting culture. It has created a theatre of accountability.
The distinction matters.
Policies do not protect people unless the people enforcing them are willing to choose protection over convenience, truth over liability management, and accountability over reputation.
The Machinery Around The Silence
One of the most difficult realities in maritime accountability is that abuse rarely exists in a vacuum. Around every vessel sits an ecosystem of companies, managers, unions, academies, insurers, flag states, legal departments, regulators, owners, captains, and senior officers. When this ecosystem works properly, it creates safety, standards, competence, and protection. When it fails, it becomes a maze through which responsibility can be endlessly redirected.
This is how people disappear inside process. A report may be acknowledged without being meaningfully addressed. A case may be internally reviewed without ever feeling truly independent. Documents may be framed through the lens of litigation before the human harm has been confronted. Institutions may protect their own exposure while the person who came forward is left trying to understand why doing the right thing has made their life harder.
Yachting has its own version of this machinery. It may use different language, but the patterns are recognisable. Crew may be told to go through the captain, even when the captain is part of the problem. They may be told to speak to management, even when management’s primary relationship is with the owner or programme. They may be told the matter is sensitive, complicated, or being handled, while their own immediate safety remains uncertain. They may be encouraged to move on quietly for the sake of future work.
The result is a culture where harm is treated as an inconvenience to be managed rather than a warning to be answered.
This is why accountability must be more than a word. It must be visible. It must be independent enough to be trusted. It must create consequences that others can see. Otherwise, every public commitment to crew welfare becomes fragile the moment it is tested.
Psychological Abuse Cannot Remain Invisible
The maritime industry is slowly becoming more willing to discuss sexual harassment and assault, but psychological abuse remains one of its most underexamined dangers. It is harder to document, harder to explain, and often easier for institutions to dismiss. It may be described as personality conflict, pressure, leadership style, poor communication, or the realities of life at sea. Yet for the person living under it, the damage can be profound.
Psychological abuse at sea can be particularly destructive because the person cannot simply go home at the end of the day. A crew member may be trapped in a confined environment with someone who humiliates, intimidates, threatens, isolates, manipulates, or systematically undermines them. The harm is not only in each incident, but in the accumulation. It is in the inability to rest, the constant anticipation of attack, the erosion of confidence, and the slow internal shift from “this is wrong” to “maybe I am the problem.”
The industry has long mistaken endurance for wellbeing. It has assumed that if someone finishes the season, completes the contract, or continues to perform, they must be fine. That assumption is dangerous. Many people keep functioning because they have no other choice. Many keep working because their financial reality demands it. Many remain outwardly professional while privately carrying damage that may take years to fully understand.
If crew welfare is to mean anything, psychological safety must be taken as seriously as physical safety. A vessel can be technically compliant and still be emotionally unsafe. A captain can deliver a successful programme and still create harm. A senior crew member can be competent in operations and destructive in leadership.
Professionalism cannot be measured only by whether the yacht runs well. It must also be measured by whether the people on board are safe from abuse of power.
Accountability Is The Only Way Forward
There is often discomfort when stories like Ryan Melogy’s are brought into public conversation. Industries built on prestige, discipline, and reputation do not enjoy having their failures examined. There will always be people who worry that speaking about abuse damages the image of the sector, discourages new talent, or gives outsiders the wrong impression.
But silence has already done the damage.
Accountability is not an attack on the maritime industry. It is the only credible path toward a safer one. The harm comes from allowing misconduct to continue, from protecting perpetrators, from isolating those who report, and from allowing institutions to treat human suffering as a reputational problem.
The industry cannot continue to ask seafarers and yacht crew for loyalty while refusing to show equal loyalty to their safety. It cannot keep demanding professionalism from the people with the least power while excusing misconduct from those with the most. It cannot speak about mental health, crew welfare, leadership, and retention while avoiding the uncomfortable truth that many people leave not because they lack resilience, but because the system asked them to survive what it should have stopped.
Real accountability is uncomfortable because it forces people to examine not only what happened, but who benefited from silence afterwards. It asks what was known, what was ignored, what was protected, and what might have been prevented if the first report had been treated with the seriousness it deserved.
That discomfort is necessary.
Without it, the same stories will continue to repeat under different names, on different vessels, in different sectors, while the industry congratulates itself for progress it has not yet earned.
What Buried At Sea Brings To The Surface
Buried At Sea is a title, but it is also an indictment of a pattern. It speaks to the reports that vanished into process, the cadets who learned too early how power protects itself, the crew members who stayed quiet because they could not afford the consequences, the witnesses who froze, the victims who doubted themselves, and the institutions that chose preservation over protection.
It also speaks to what happens when silence fails.
Because buried things do not always stay buried. Records remain. Patterns emerge. People talk. Survivors find language. Advocates build cases. Journalists ask questions. Lawyers uncover documents. What was once treated as an isolated complaint becomes part of something larger, something harder to dismiss.
Ryan Melogy’s story matters because it is not only his. It reflects a wider reckoning taking place across maritime spaces where hierarchy, isolation, and reputation have too often been allowed to outweigh safety. His experience, and the work that followed, forces the industry to confront a question it can no longer avoid: what kind of future is possible if the people who report harm are still treated as the threat?
At sea, power has too often been protected by distance. Abuse has too often been protected by complexity. Silence has too often been mistaken for order.
That cannot be the standard any longer.
What is buried at sea does not disappear simply because powerful people prefer it that way. It waits beneath the surface, gathering weight, until someone is willing to bring it back into the light.
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